Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Worthiness of Love

I might be saying a mouthful but I think I've figured out why successful people have more trouble maintaining relationships. 

Those who are successful achievers learn to equate success with acts. Genuine Love, on the other hand, is the art of appreciating a person's being without act or cause. The unfortunate parallel that we are taught in society tells us that we are worthy and valid only because of what we do and what we are, opposed to who we are. This in turn causes us to equate love with accomplishments that become validated via acts. 

The raw truth is that anytime love must be proved or validated via an act or service, isn't love at all...it is fiction. We must learn to appreciate our value as a lovable being, not as one who is worth love only because of a title, position, or deed. Once we value ourselves on a personal and individual level, we can then love others wholeheartedly and completely. We must write our story about life and love based on our innate value rather than our assumed value. 

Who are you and what truly makes you worthy of love? You are worthy because you are!

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